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Wenchuan orphans

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Appease the demand for the Wenchuan with orphans through mission, Nanjing Normal University, organized a group of psychology, pedagogy, sociology professors launched a social survey. During the survey period using interviews and observation, concerning the post-disaster family reunions, Orphan Care, victims of psychological debugging, employment, further education, the plight of life measures of the Government's role expectations and other aspects. Month-long investigation, interviews, and more than 300 cases, access to large amounts of data. Orphans of the Tangshan earthquake in the interview, many people said that although after the earthquake have received a variety of external assistance, but ultimately lost their parents to help them out of the enormous grief, trauma or gradually heal itself strong, optimistic, bold face the reality.

 

80% of the orphans that: they are the biggest post-disaster needs of the family warmth and selfless love for others. They only from immediate family members with blood, where to get sustained attention. This psychological dependence, if not possible, their self-esteem, self-confidence and personality would be invisible injury. Prone to mental endurance fragile sense of inferiority feelings, self-exclusion and the community. For example, there are victims in Wenchuan make undue demands on the volunteers, is this feeling of distrust of anger and bad feelings migration. Therefore, in the upbringing of orphans in Wenchuan should be fully mentally prepared for their thoughts decompression of the disaster to help them establish the correct concept of optimism and tenacity strong and bitter quality, to stimulate enthusiasm for life and cultivate the courage to overcome difficulties is a priority is also a long-term planning. According to physical and psychological characteristics to formulate a scientific upbringing of orphans, the program is necessary.

 

Orphan Care placement in the environment, the focus on raising children for the same experiences, psychological identity, integration start faster, but later because they can not be sustained attention to the lack of subtle, personalized guidance, will have cognitive breaking and rebellion . To prevent and guard against the occurrence of circumstances relevant to the needs of such persons to exert greater efforts, attention and care.

 

Ma Xiuying, Ma Xiuhong, 60 Tangshan earthquake orphans that: they spent physically and mentally, desperate circumstances, to persuade the people around them to help them overcome the psychological barrier. Collective adoption of not only solve the livelihood problems of care for each other, more critical is the fact that extended family living environment for them a closed knot is opened, spiritual comfort is the key to get them out of pain. Compensate for the missing mass adoption of family warmth and family care, to enable them to healthy living. So, create a warm family atmosphere is the focus of Wenchuan placement of orphans.

 

Gao Wei-guo, ZHANG Chunna other 30 orphans that: due to the presence of Love Complex soil makes it choose a foreign land placement in another pool of the Jirenlixia desolate and abandoned. They are afraid of loneliness, relocation does not make them forget the pain. On the contrary wandering, unstable thoughts become their heavy burden of the spirit of the second injury and long-term can not be healed, it is proposed that hit the nearest settlement. After all, one person's idea of land and water to support the party enjoys popular support, spiritual care in the placement of such indispensable.

 

Lee Ying-Medium 40 orphans in that: a sense of belonging to their left a deep impression. Whenever they are in later life and work groups setbacks, they would compare the suffering of childhood experiences. Through the memories of happier times with their growing power to seek spiritual and psychological comfort. Spiritual home is to focus on recognized the value of the care of orphans. A sense of belonging is the spiritual home of the bond.

 

Formed in the same boat centralized adoption of collective spirit, a spirit of cooperation to overcome difficulties orphans inexhaustible source of power and. However, due to the narrow scope of communication, orphans adult withdrawn and reluctant to share with outsiders and profound. This has become a popular character disorder. Focus on the adoption of children should pay attention to the guidance, develop their vision and heart, so that their positive qualities, positive transfer.

 

    
(Author: Nanjing Normal University Park Campus with the College of Education Science Applied Psychology Jin-Ling Zhang)


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