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Accept or not,Determine my Happiness

已有 4141 次阅读 2012-9-13 23:22 |个人分类:生活感悟|系统分类:生活其它| Happiness

Each day brings new element to my life,bad or good,common or wonderful,meaningless or meaningful!no matter what it is,i must make a decision,accept or not,which make a different toward my happiness!
 
To be frank,if it is good news,i would be glad to accept the gift by God or others without hesitate!however ,when it comes to something bad,what would i do?
 
When i make mistakes,and i was blamed by someone ,should i blam myself again and keep in bad mood for a long time to show to others that i know  i am wrong?or i should say to myself that i accept my mistakes and i would correct them soon!
 
When i was misunderstood by others,should i be anger to others and feel confused that  why others can't understand you?or should i accept the fact that they just misunderstand you and if i explain to them later,everything would be ok?
 
When something unfair (like someone lying to me)happened to me ,should i complaint about that the social system is  wrong and God is unfair?or i should accept the fact that there is no absolute fair in our world and say to myself it doesn't matter,all things would  go well !
 
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The answer is not always the same to me ,it depends!most time i don't accept the facts ,which makes me unhappy and misery!to make myself more happy and healthy,now i am accepting and must accept anything in my daily life !bad or good ,common or  wonderful,meaningless or meaningful,i accept all of you ,as long as i am happy!


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