All the time, while the child is playing with his cards and patterns, make funny, loving, happy noises. NEVER scold a child who doesn't do what you want. NEVER tell him that he is wrong,- show him the right way. NEVER discourage him. NEVER force him to continue "playing" when he wants to do something else NEVER rush a child to do more than he can. ALWAYS encourage him. ALWAYS congratulate him when he has completed his game, or even part of his game. ALWAYS listen to him and his preferences. ALWAYS go along with the child if he is inventive and creative, and wants to play cards in a totally different way.